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Same Sex in the City


At last, a relationship book for lesbians that tells it like it is. The journey from sexual curiosity to finally coming out can be confusing without proper guidance and empowering role models. In Same Sex in the City, Lauren Levin and Lauren Blitzer provide women – gay, straight, and bi-curious alike – with firsthand insight into the advantages and challenges of being a lesbian. In prose that is at once honest and uplifting, the Laurens relate their own experiences and those of the women they interview, as well as offer serious advice, titillating anecdotes, and a positive attitude for girls who know they’re gay – and for those who are wondering about their sexuality but are not yet sure whether their Prince Charming is really a Cinderella. Part confessional, part informational, Same Sex in the City covers the gamut of lesbian life – from dating to heartbreak, and from hooking up with straight chicks to raising a family. It’s the book that millions of women have been searching for – a relationship guide that will help every woman come to terms with and celebrate her sexuality, whatever it may be.

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Dating Beautiful Russian Women

 

Many men worldwide have discovered the beauty of Russian women and Online Dating has presented the perfect opportunity to know and meet these women. How easy is it to date and win a Russian woman? Russian and Ukrainian women are quite distinct. They have been brought up within a cultural, moral and political system that until less than two decades ago was shut off from the rest of the world. Understanding these differences is important and can be very helpful in reducing the risks of misunderstandings, or worse causing offense. It is fair to say that moral standards are above average and that the family unit is still very important and understanding this is very important. So be and act as gentlemen in the course of your correspondence. Allow your lady to take the lead, particularly when it comes to intimacy. Do not hide, let her know what you look like! Anything less is unreasonable and unrealistic! Why are so many men wary of including their photo within their profile? It undoubtedly is a mistake and greatly diminishes their chances of attracting a woman. Be realistic, would you write to a lady if you did not know how she looks? What will she think if you show a reluctance to allow her to see your photo? What would you think if the circumstances were reversed? Yes you would feel doubtful, or suspicious. I know that it leads them to think that the man must be hiding something, or is afraid of something? Due to circumstances beyond their control, the majority of these ladies are not economically well off, but they do seem to share an open and generous nature and a freedom and openness of heart and spirit. It is not a good idea to dwell on the value of your house, car or anything else for that matter. Whilst these ladies are not economically very secure, they are not shallow and dwelling on your material possessions, or success, is not the way to go. Ok, there will be a minority that will be very interested in knowing how wealthy you may, or may not be, but you must decide if this is the type of woman you seek? Equally remember that these ladies are actively considering what will be for them a huge leap of faith and trust. They are considering leaving behind their family, friends and a way of life that they know. They will need to feel that you are financially secure and that you are in a position to support them and help them in a new country. An unknown country of different customs, language and values. She will need to know that you will be at her side in starting her new life. Be patient, do not rush her. Be a gentlemen and allow her to determine the pace at which your romance develops and grows. Once she begins to feel sure and secure with you her tenderness and femininity will become apparent and clear. Telling her you love her after two letters could be a good way to lose her. The likelihood is she will have much to say to you, much to share with you. Listen and respond with care and sensitivity. Be attentive, listen and try to understand what she is telling you and be responsive. As these ladies are in general very intelligent they will both enjoy and respond to your attentiveness. Many of these ladies are very beautiful, but equally they are smart enough to know that their beauty will one day fade. Build up a level of trust and encourage her to express her deeper feelings and qualities. Engage her in deep and meaningful exchanges of ideas and values and let her know that you find her perceptions both admirable and adorable. Whilst most ladies like to be complimented on their beauty, do not go overboard. Whilst Russian and Ukrainianwomen have a completely different take on feminism ( it is for them to be proudly and strongly feminine) they do want to be loved and admired as a complete and important person. Not as an item, or trophy. Someone or something to hang onto the arm of a man as if a decoration. Excessive references to their physical beauty alone could create feelings of unease for her for these reasons. Be open, trustful and generous of heart and nature and she will respond accordingly and she will slowly open up to you. If you have any doubts, or suspicions about the lady you are sharing correspondence with, she will almost certainly feel it within your words and it will be a huge turn off for her. Be open, honest and trusting and she will reciprocate. Any sign of meanness of spirit, or nature and you will loose her. Try to be open, trusting and generous of spirit with her, this is something that is generally admired and attractive to these ladies. Send her flowers, or perfume by all means, but giving of yourself is far more important. Be patient with her; Be the gentlemen and follow her lead, once a level of trust has developed, the relationship can move forward, but allow it to grow and develop at a pace that she feels comfortable and secure with. Do not expect her to invite you to her country to visit her after three letters (she will think you very desperate), allow the relationship to develop naturally and at her pace. Romancing a Russian lady can be both a joy and an inspiration as so many of these ladies have many deep and attractive qualities. Equally tuning into their intelligence, awareness and perspectives can be a very pleasant surprise. Bide your time, be attentive and be patient. Your success could depend upon it and your quest will be all the more successful. The secret is no more. Increasing numbers of men the World over are discovering the beauty, charms and attractions of Russian and Ukrainian women. We are proud to be introducing our beautiful ladies to men Worldwide .

Terrence Aubrey is English and now lives in Spain. He has travelled the world extensively which he has found personally enriching, highly educational, mind expanding and humbling, all in equal measure. Travelling within and experiencing the culture and beauty of the Ukraine whilst establishing his international online dating agency was particularly interesting and enjoyable and it is now a country that he loves. He has written many articles covering a variety of topical issues and is something of an expert for those worldwide that hope to find a Russian Bride and you can learn more at:-http://www.confidentialmatchmakers.com

 

 

 

 

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