Without parroting the usual cliches I see on many websites purporting to offer advice on how to attract or date Chinese women, I’d like to offer you 2 gold techniques which I have found to be absolute winners when trying to attract Chinese women. Having lived in China for over eight years and dating a broad range of Chinese women I can tell you that many methods of attracting western women do not work in the same way with Chinese females at all, and some of the commonly spoken of techniques have little relevance in today’s Chinese society.

Firstly you should know one irrefutable fact, due to Chinese culture being largely based on Confucianism and conformity many Chinese women have the same way of thinking and psychology as each other; they also follow similar reactions to certain external stimuli which I have noticed are exceptionally predictable for the most part (I estimate an approx 80% ratio of fact to my statement based on experience), whereas with western women this is not the case at all! Bearing this in mind, we can then find some truly winning techniques that will have an incredibly high success rate, I know this to be the case as I use them all the time, and they work! 
Let’s take a sneak-peak at a couple of them that’ll really get you ‘in the zone’ should you use them:
1. Be a man! Now, whereas western women for the most part expect you to be all about the equality, Chinese women actually do not; all political correctness aside for the moment out of necessity, I’d like to make something clear to you: ‘Chinese women like a man that can make decisions, and mostly they are not shy to admit it’. When trying to decide a dish choice at dinner don’t ‘ummm and errrrr’, make a decision for her if she seems uncertain. It’s attractive to her, and to a degree expected of you. If she has a strong will, you’ll know about it soon enough.
2. Be sure to place some food in her bowl (if you are eating Chinese food) or just take some of your food from your plate and put it on hers (if the dish is different from hers), this way she can try yours too. When you do this with Chinese female she will feel you are showing how responsible and considerate you are of her. This one Chinese dating etiquette action can really compel her to be attracted to you. If you don’t believe me try it and watch her eyes light up!

For your own sake, remember that a great majority of the advice out there is based on some rather out-of-date ideas about China and Chinese culture; not to mention a false view as presented by Chinese females themselves. Find out more Chinese Dating Advice Revealed and 7 crucial facts you should know before dating or marrying a Chinese woman, and go to http://ChineseDatingSecrets.com/

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