Thinking of dating Chinese women in America? Although being caucasian myself, I grew up around a great deal of Chinese women in my own native country and even though I have spent the last eight years living in mainland China I am still surprised at how many Chinese women born in America and Canada still retain a certain amount of cultural conditioning that affects their dating choices similar to mainland Chinese, and this also affects the kind of men they are attracted to.
I get quite a few emails from guys dating Chinese women in America and Canada, and one of their biggest fears, apart from how to attract her, is that they will make a mistake in the dating process and really mess up their chances. In truth, understanding the cultural perspective that she’s received from her parents and had reinforced by the Chinese community surrounding her, is quite important. It can be the difference between her making a physical-emotional commitment or not.
Let me clear on one thing with you, seeing as we really want to get to the crux of the situation in the beginning; Chinese women do not really distinguish between physical and emotional commitment; for the most part they look for a male that can fulfill the emotional long-term relationship criteria and then choose to get physical with that male; no matter mainland Chinese women or north-American born Chinese women, it’s the same result. it’s not the male who made the choice, it’s the Chinese woman in question. And more importantly, if she gets intimate with you, she has in fact already made a form of commitment.
Bearing all of this in mind I want to explain a couple of things you can do that are likely to result in Chinese American or Chinese Canadian women having a strong attraction to you:
Firstly, even before you have asked for a date, you should make sure you are pretty clean-cut. It’s a rare Chinese woman that likes the ‘rough and ready’ or grunge look. They get this from the Chinese mainland’s culture (including the ones not even born there!), even sometimes when they are not aware of it. In mainland China it’s pretty much only garbage men, farmers and poor artists that maintain facial hair.
Now she may well be brought up in north-America, and there is a possibility that she is a bit different from mainland Chinese, but by my own estimation based on experience, it’s still a seven out of ten ratio of Chinese females who dislike facial hair on a man in the west, compared to a nine out of ten ratio in mainland China. So basically put, in this case, it’s much better to go with the odds and lose the facial hair!
Secondly, the Chinese women in question, although born in America or Canada, will still approximately have as much as about 35 to 40  percent mainland Chinese cultural conditioning as part of their personality which cannot be avoided.
So, another fantastic tip in view of the fact that the mother in Chinese culture is so revered, is to emphasize your strong family ties and your view that family is very important, and this is especially so in view of your relationship to your own mother, this small tip really cannot be underestimated! The Chinese woman in question will then consider you an excellent bet, and remember, short-term and long-term dating relationships are equal in a Chinese females psychology!


In past decades, no one can think about relationship between white men and black women due to racial differences. White community had not given much respect and importance to their counterpart. Still, there are some differences between them but a lot of thing has been changed. Over the time, there are drastic changes in white community peoples’ (especially young or new generation peoples) approach. In modern era, you can’t make relationship on the basis of racial differences. You should not like someone just because off he or she belong to your community and the pressure of your family and friends.

In this information technology era (IT Era), you can find numerous websites which provide dating services for white men and black women. Most of these sites provide free registration to both communities while some of sites require nominal charges for registration. One of the best benefits of registration on these sites is security and safety of your personal information. Their servers are secured and no one can view your information without your permission. Moreover, there are millions of registered members on many sites where both communities choose the perfect partner according to their specific choices and interests. You can also chat to your partner through this site and share your feelings which will help you to understand each other.

As no one can deny the fact that any relationship builds on the strong pillar of faith and self-dignity. Hence, mutual understandings take the most important place as far as dating between white men and black women are concerned. There may be some dispute in various matters, and you will win sometimes and sometimes, you will lose. Don’t treat it as personal. It quiet happens in any kinds of relationships. You need not be worried in facing these situations. This is one of the toughest situations and you can handle it brilliantly by understanding each other. Thus, mutual understandings are essential factor in healthy relationships.

In white men and black women dating, both should have value their position to each other. For this, you should have the right thoughts before convincing your partners so that they could understand your feelings. In proposing anyone, you should follow practical approaches rather than making false assumptions which are practically not possible. Moreover, you should find traditional as well as unconventional tricks to find in black women and white men dating relationship whether you are a white men or black women and vice-versa.


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Without parroting the usual cliches I see on many websites purporting to offer advice on how to attract or date Chinese women, I’d like to offer you 2 gold techniques which I have found to be absolute winners when trying to attract Chinese women. Having lived in China for over eight years and dating a broad range of Chinese women I can tell you that many methods of attracting western women do not work in the same way with Chinese females at all, and some of the commonly spoken of techniques have little relevance in today’s Chinese society.

Firstly you should know one irrefutable fact, due to Chinese culture being largely based on Confucianism and conformity many Chinese women have the same way of thinking and psychology as each other; they also follow similar reactions to certain external stimuli which I have noticed are exceptionally predictable for the most part (I estimate an approx 80% ratio of fact to my statement based on experience), whereas with western women this is not the case at all! Bearing this in mind, we can then find some truly winning techniques that will have an incredibly high success rate, I know this to be the case as I use them all the time, and they work! 
Let’s take a sneak-peak at a couple of them that’ll really get you ‘in the zone’ should you use them:
1. Be a man! Now, whereas western women for the most part expect you to be all about the equality, Chinese women actually do not; all political correctness aside for the moment out of necessity, I’d like to make something clear to you: ‘Chinese women like a man that can make decisions, and mostly they are not shy to admit it’. When trying to decide a dish choice at dinner don’t ‘ummm and errrrr’, make a decision for her if she seems uncertain. It’s attractive to her, and to a degree expected of you. If she has a strong will, you’ll know about it soon enough.
2. Be sure to place some food in her bowl (if you are eating Chinese food) or just take some of your food from your plate and put it on hers (if the dish is different from hers), this way she can try yours too. When you do this with Chinese female she will feel you are showing how responsible and considerate you are of her. This one Chinese dating etiquette action can really compel her to be attracted to you. If you don’t believe me try it and watch her eyes light up!

For your own sake, remember that a great majority of the advice out there is based on some rather out-of-date ideas about China and Chinese culture; not to mention a false view as presented by Chinese females themselves. Find out more Chinese Dating Advice Revealed and 7 crucial facts you should know before dating or marrying a Chinese woman, and go to http://ChineseDatingSecrets.com/

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